AN ETHICAL APPRAISAL OF BABY MAMA AND ITS IMPLICATIONS FOR THE CHURCH IN NIGERIA

Abstract

ABSTRACT This paper examines the moral challenges and aberrant index confronting the Church in Nigeria, that is, the increasing prevalence of the “Baby Mama,” which is gaining global popularity. The study reveals that “Baby Mama” practice is a glamorized trend copied from celebrities who are viewed as ‘idols or models' in society. The paper reveals a deviation from traditional nuclear family structures, presenting the church as a loosely organized religious entity despite its extensive biblical teachings. Today, Christian ethics and moral theology are being challenged by high advocacy of some women's pursuit of equality, self-interest, and financial gains, among other factors. The rise of “Baby Mama” in Nigerian society and its influence on the church has led to a growing acceptance of non-marital relationships as alternatives to marriage. This has given rise to women's quest for the feminist movement, gender equality, causing children born in such situations to experience paternal identity issues, trauma, and stigmatization. It is observed that the ‘Baby Mama’ practice, involving children born out of wedlock, is leading to family fragmentation and apathy, threatening biblical ideals of unity and fidelity in marriage, and complicating commitments and conflicts with biblical teachings. This is changing youth perceptions of marriage, making it seem unnecessary. To combat this practice, a holistic approach is key. Clergy, social professionals, and psychologists should organize community seminars to emphasize the importance of commitment and accountability in relationships. Enhance social services that offer unmarried women emotional and financial support and create community-based networks where women may get help from mentors and peers. Virtue ethics theory, as used in this paper, emphasizes instilling virtuous habits into an individual's conduct, prioritizing the moral character of an individual over rule-based systems. The methodology employed is qualitative, encompassing structured interviews, phenomenological analysis, and analytical procedures